In 2020, I became a certified life coach. While I'm out of the coaching business industry and no longer identify as a “life coach”, I still believe in the value of coaching philosophy and practices. While I figure out if / how to offer my services as a coach with integrity, this pages serves to briefly describe what coaching is and my approach to offering services. I am also available for speaking engagements and workshops on self-coaching practices. Scroll down or book a call with me to learn more.

What is coaching?

Coaching is a conversation during which my questions and your answers peel back layers of social and cultural conditioning, bring awareness to neurobiological influences, and help you understand any situation more clearly. As a result, you will discover who you are, what you want, and how to take action with authority. So how does coaching produce life-changing results? By equipping you with the following:

Awareness

CBT-based “thought work” and critical thinking skills that will change how you view yourself and the world.

Practice

Mindfulness, self-attunement, and processing of feelings to build a resilient and more confident you.

Power

Take radical responsibility for your life and your role in both the problems and the solutions.

Through coaching, I can help you to develop the ability to self-coach so that you can benefit from these skills on your own. By learning to utilize these approaches, you will continue to benefit from our coaching sessions for the rest of your life.

This is not about positive thinking, the laws of the attraction, or woo-woo wishfulness. This is a neuroscience-based practical tool that almost anyone can use and benefit from. Scroll down or jump here for my client testimonials.

One of my favorite things to coach myself and others on is time and energy management. Click here for loads of tips and tricks!

Check out my personal essays on navigating life with self coaching tools here.

I made a ton of resources on coaching skills, from networking to dating to clearing your email inbox. Contact me for a link to them all.

I provide one 30 minute free coaching session. If you want to continue with additional sessions, we can talk about what that might cost.

I acknowledge my privilege and the stolen land and labor that built the society I live in and benefit from. As such, I offer discounts on coaching to Black, Indigenous, and people of color, regardless of financial need. I also offer options for bartering and a sliding scale rate. Payment plans are available. Please contact me or book a call to learn more.

Having doubts? I remember having that feeling.

When I first discovered coaching, the idea of investing in my empowerment made my stomach turn and my palms sweaty. Yet paying for coaching could be the highest-return investment you will ever make. It certainly was for me! 

So why is your brain giving you so many excuses not to sign up?  Two reasons:

1) We are socialized to invest in what benefits patriarchy and capitalism
Like gym memberships, beauty products, college and masters’ degrees, weddings, and vacations. And not like our confidence, empowerment, or ability to think for ourselves.

2) As humans, we are still largely motivated by our survival instincts
This includes a scarcity mindset, where giving up something we have (our money) is seen as risky, and not worth the potential reward, even if that reward is a lifetime of being confident, bold, and brave.

That is why investing in yourself might be a scary yucky feeling. But imagine running your own B-Corp company, of successfully lobbying Congress for carbon reduction laws, or of discovering low-impact ways of upcycling electric vehicle parts, and doing so without the impostor syndrome, people pleasing, or constant self-criticism. That’s the transformation coaching can bring. And that, my friend, is priceless.

I can also help with…

Want a coaching workshop for your organization? I also provide in-person and virtual workshops for any size group on a variety of topics. Click here to learn more.

Want me to speak on or moderate a panel? I am available for speaking engagements and panel moderating. Please contact me to discuss.

Testimonials

My Coaching Philosophy & Business Values

I believe that self-confidence and confidence can be harmed by patriarchy, sexism, and misogyny. Additional socialization, limitations, and expectations weigh on those who are black, indigenous, people of color; neurodiverse, disabled, fat, gender-non-conforming, LGBTQA+, or any other marginalized identity impacted by institutional and internalized systems of oppression.

Coaching is how you can liberate your mind from socializations, internalized oppressions, and outdated coping mechanisms; how you can build self-confidence, agency, and trust in yourself and your expertise; and how you can love yourself unconditionally, lead with curiosity and compassion, and build strong, healthy relationships with yourself and others.

My coaching business is based in the principle of just commerce, as taught by Trudi Lebron, and guided by the following values:

 Integrity & honesty

Stewardship & quality

Diversity, equity, & inclusion

 Service & generosity